Should we lift utensils ourselves at home after finishing meals to put the same near sink?It is not about traditional Indian etiquette but the modern day practice. Gone are the days when women used to take care of all aspects of home management including cooking and serving meals. The men, on the other hand used to play the role of house lord expecting women to do everything.
In common households, after finishing meals, the utensils are required to be removed from the dining table/area either by the lady of the house or by the individuals themselves and put the same near the sink or utensil cleaning area.
What is the good practice in this regard? Should we remove utensils ourselves or leave it as it is for further action by somebody else?