Giving free advise to some one is different and talking to many from the stage is different. Because while giving advise to one or two persons, even we err, they wont mind and forget. But when we are asked to talk on the stage, we must be prepared to do so with authentic information and much to the satisfaction of guests and audience. May be for this reason many would shy away from talking on the stage. However this fear complex can be removed, if one practices the speech or the oratory skill before the mirror and ask others to listen. This way a confidence building measure can be created within to remove the stage fear. And while starting the speech , please request the audience to encourage you for good inputs in the middle and also clap for the good things being told. That would increase the confidence level surely.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease