'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
As an infant baby - a slave life in cradles, bed and laps.
As a school going child - study study study is the word heard with a heavy load of books and papers.
After education - Search search search for a job with too many interviews and disappointments.
After marriage - Having been tied strongly with three knots care each other with love and to struggle.
After giving birth to children - Worry as parents in nurturing and bringing them up.
In their old age - Children doesn't care, but sent to old age home to suffer.
So, Life on earth is not so easy, but live it out.
No life without Sun
"If you are killed in action, you go to Heaven. If you win, you rule this Earth (as beautiful as Heaven). That is why, O son of Kunti, take a firm resolve and fight!"-- Shrimad Bhagwad Gita
Generally, all the parents will always try to give the maximum comforts to their children. Even they may eat or may not eat, but they will see that their children will have the comforts. They will take maximum pains to see that their children will be happy. Really parenting is a tough job and a thankless job. A parent should not expect anything in return from their children so that there will not be any disappointment afterwards. The children's behaviour will tell about the qualities of the parents.
If you look around, you will see that Nature is taking care of everything without being involved directly. It provides everything that is necessary and at the same time remains aloof from the entire process of birth, growth & decay.
I agree that Parents brings the child to this world but they are also part of this nature; they cannot control child's life.
Birth, Death & the learning process takes its own course. No come can claim the right for this natural autonomous course. Parents should also take care of their own happiness, desires & should live a healthy life. That's Nature.
"If you want to make real progress, you must give up all ideas of personal attainment".