Do you love yourself?This may seem like a strange query, but there is a thought behind it.
There are people who go out of their way to be kind and helpful to others. They care so much about the other people in their life or care about their work to the extent that they neglect their own self. They need to understand that it is equally necessary to care about their own self, for themselves. It is imperative to not feel guilty about putting "I" before "Them" or worry constantly about "That responsibility requires my attention" as opposed to "This I have to do first, for myself".
Have you faced situations like that, where you do need to consider loving yourself first before loving others?