When I was working at a firm, one of the guy used to pat on my back and used to slide his hand to my lower back (starting from neck), I told him directly, I dont like this. He continued to do so, and infact used to loudly joke "Sir, she harasses me", when I once really hit him hard. No doubt that company was bad and I had to leave that firm (not because of this, I handled it, with my own way, abusing him, in front of HR and opening the door when doing so, it was difficult as no one was taking any action and I was out of my options to stop it). I was a strong one and no doubt, what I faced after that with ease, is not at all possible for average female. He used to propose me for marriage as well. That is not sexual harassment for me. That is MOLESTATION for me with sexual pervert intent. I keep this word still the same on my grounds.
I was repeatedly asked to marry by a fellow ISCian, and on facebook (not in ISC messages). I consider that as immature and I stopped responding, and blocked that person. For me that is neither molestation, nor sexual harassment. That is stalking and mental harassment, and I dealt with it.
Sexual molestation is when someone is doing something more than molestation. Touching the person at wrong areas and making the other person uncomfortable.
But for others, who am I to judge. I studied in Haryana, and used to face eve teasing, molestation every day. But dealt with it, with best possible way I could.
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