The word of friend makes you cry - the word of an enemy makes you laugh"How many of you believe in the proverb?
It says the true friend will always give you the advice which you may not find good for you but that actually is good for you whereas an enemy will advise you the things which seem good but they are actually not.
I have been in such a situation many times and that's when we are able to judge who is our friend and who is not. I know its always difficult for us to judge but that's our will. Sometimes even we know that the people are advising us wrong but we accept them because we always select the easy way out for us. And that's where we went wrong.
I have been very judgemental since my childhood and have easily differentiated between wrong and right. What's your experience in life?.