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    Hardships make you resentful or content?

    There is no person who has never faced setbacks or hardships in Life. You grow up, you face challenges, you are knocked down by real-life hurdles, you face ignorance, hurt and being cheated by people you never expected. But despite all these problems in Life, which is evident we will face, it is really up to us how we take them, how we deal with them and move ahead.
    Do all these battles physically or mentally make you a bitter person, or it changes you to be more amicable and compassionate?
    It is our choice in my opinion, and it shows depth in our character. What are your thoughts over the same?
  • #653521
    Iti,
    My thought about hardships:
    We make many random choices in our life depending upon the chances available to us at a particular time. Many things are beyond our control. Our perception only avoiding certain things and seizing certain opportunities. Those random choices can be life altering, sometimes may push us into hardships. We can't avoid them. For the survival, we have to cultivate the technique of seeing all hardships into opportunities. In this process some may turned to become more amicable and compassionate. Some may be successful and some may not. Live our life without expectations is freedom, which is Godliness.

  • #653523
    Hardships in life make a human being more mature. If everything goes smoothly without any difficulties, we never understand the value of our lives. sometime we will be in a situation where we have to take a decision. The decision we take may change our entire life. It may make our life very hard. Even then we can't go back. We have to see the other side and we should try our best to come out of that critical situation. That will make us much mature. As you polish a stone more, it will shine better. These hardships are nothing but the tools to get polished and then we will shine. This is how we have to take our life always with a positive thought and expectation. So without worrying about the hardships if we take them as they come we will definitely see a green pasture in the remaining part of our life. Be positive, take things as they come and ultimately we will be successful in our lives.
    drrao
    always confident

  • #653533
    Hardships are the part and parcel of the life and we have to take them in that spirit. Whenever we plan to go ahead in our endeavours there will be difficulties and hurdles in our way. We have to find ways to deal and mitigate them. The journey of life is like that only.

    Sometimes we feel to quit the struggle but that will stop our growth and the whole purpose of progress will be finished.

    One must face this challenges with courage and hard work and should not be deterred from the adopted path of expected progress.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #653535
    Hardships make us more mature, more experienced. All of us know this. But even then, all of us want that we ourselves do not suffer from hardship. Instead, we like to give advice to others who have going through a tough phase of life.
    Beware! I question everything and everybody.

  • #653536
    When you can handle hardships and overcome the hurdles you will be content. On the other hand, as long as you are unable to overcome the hurdles there may be resentment. It all depends on how the person is going to handle hardships in life. Hardships will make a person tough. It will teach us how to overcome hurdles and as long as we are not facing hardships no advice or suggestions will be able to make us understand the situation.

    The thing is, resentment will make the situation even worse and our worry will increase. We may have some bitter experiences, but that should not make us bitter. Being resentful is a sign of weakness and we should not let the happenings of the past to disturb our future actions. The experience from the hardships must be followed carefully in our future and also to help others during difficult times.

    Sankalan

    "Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"

  • #653548
    Life is not a smooth journey. At every step there will be a challenge and problem to be solved before proceeding ahead. These are the hurdles which make us strong and further determined to fight back with new strategies.

    So we have to accept them as they are and try to make a way through.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #653554
    Hardships are the part of life and one should face them boldly. We cannot avoid them in life. They make us a better person and teach us a lesson about how to deal with them in future.

    They prepare us better for fighting with the things in future which broke us, also they make us identify the people.

    We should remember that tough time doesn't last for a long if we fight with it. We should be patient and should not run away from them. They definitely create voids in our life but that should be dealt with patience and leave it. Yes, they give us pain and stress but we should try to come out of that phase.

    Life is uncertain and we come across things which may find tough but we should have a positive attitude towards life and should remember that life changes with the time, nothing is stagnant .

    Sanjeev

    " It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not" ... Andre Gide

  • #654019
    All difficulties temper our character and will. When we stop blaming someone for our problems and failures, we will reach the highest level of hardening and then success will not keep you waiting.


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