Shedding tears is the way to express our heart painIf the heart hesitates to digest the things around it. It can show it's action either in positive or in negative. Such positive sign could be shown in the form of tears. It is not the tears because of peeling the onions. For example, a poor man with a wound on his leg I saw in a railway station. A small pain is raised in my heart. I felt the experience of the pain at the moment. That man is an outer of my family. The same thing whether it is death or injury happens in my family, the same pain comes out in the form of tears. That happened to me at the time of my grand father's death. I could not stop my tears while carrying my grand father's body to bury place.
Our beloved one left from us and if he or she could not come back, then the mental state of us is stable if and only if our tears are to be completely vanish by shedding.