Do few moments of sourness in relationships make it sweeter?Misunderstandings, quarrels, a difference in opinions are quite common in any relationship, be it husband- wife, friends, father-son etc. It is said that where there is love there will be fights also and it is sometimes healthy for the relationships.
When there are moments of sourness in any relationship it is followed by firing words from both sides and this is followed by a virtual curfew where both the parties keep silent and do not talk to each other for few days. This is the period when they remain silent, think over the happenings and analyze it. Then as time passes by they start missing each other and they realize the value of togetherness. So anger subsides and each one realizes their mistakes and compromise is reached again.
It is seen that these breaks make the relationship sweeter than before and a renewed bond is established between the associated parties. It is just like sunshine which seems more pleasant after the spells of storm and rain.
So sometimes these occasional downs in relationships serve as a blessing in disguise to make the relationships more mature. Sometimes in relationships, people start taking each other for granted and when everything is going well people do not take time to think as to what more can be done to strengthen the relationship. But when things like quarrels, misunderstandings happen they make people think and analyze about their mistakes and at times this leads to more responsibility and seriousness towards carrying on the relationship.
So smooth drive in a relationship is always good but few speed breakers on the way make us alert, slow down and then again accelerate in the journey of relationship.