When the mind matters"Please do not mind". Well, we say this to others at times because we think others may take things too personally or think otherwise. This term is used just as a precaution to avoid the consequence of directly attributing a comment to the other person. We use this term to point out some deficiencies in a situation or others' actions. It is natural to become more conscious when somebody tells us "Please don't mind".
Actually, the activities inside the minds of others cannot be understood from outside. We may tell the other person not to mind on a certain issue, but it cannot be said definitely that the person never minded about it. She/he may not express it in front of us at that moment, but actually, the mind may have worked usually and took it in another way despite the warning. So, whether you mind it or not, never take things too personally. There are people who tend to take everything personally and I think it's a habit. Better to change that habit, if you do not mind.