Be very careful in wedding alliancesThose who still believe in going through the elaborate process of matching of horoscopes is very common when it comes to marriages in India. One understands that in most of India, this is a big practice. In most of South India, it is a norm.
However, in spite of all best efforts and the best of astrologers used, there is an increasingly shocking number of things that are going wrong. Here is one recent example. In a wealthy Tamil Brahmin family, a girl's parents went through the elaborate process of matching of horoscopes.
The boy seemed to be working in Singapore. The parents of the boy did all the smooth talking. The engagement function went on in grand style. A few hours after the engagement function, the boy sent a whats up message to the parents of the girl and the girl herself and did a vanishing trick. The message said, "sorry, this cannot work out".
The boy's parents put on a brave face and threatened the girl's family that they would file a case in court that their son was not treated well and that was the reason for his strange behavior.
The parents of the girl lodged a police complaint and a few days later, he was traced to a bar in Bangalore. Whether he was arrested is still not clear. However, enough damage has been done. The girl's parents went on searching to check the bonafide's of the boy's employment in Singapore and drew a blank. They were not sure whether he was really employed there at all.
Members, kindly inform this real-world true experience to anyone seeking alliances for their sons or daughters. An elaborate process of inquiry needs to be put in place. In fact, security agencies charge some Rs.80,000 but do an excellent job. Wealthy parents could as well spend this amount to be sure where they are heading to.