When it's between you and me do not take sidesAll over the world, there is a conflict. A conflict between politicians, a conflict between nations, between religions and even between family members. Now the family conflicts do not become headlines unless it's in the families of elites, the other conflicts do make headlines. All these conflicts arise because a group tries to gain supremacy over the others and apply their powers to control the others. It started since the beginning of civilization and is continuing until now. There is no point in looking for the exact reasons behind any conflict because it is hard to pinpoint the exact reason.
The point here is the support both the parties engaged in conflict enjoys. If the conflict is only between you and me, we can sort it out. But if it's between Us Vs Them it's very difficult to contain. Both the parties engaged in a conflict have a support base. If one party is absolutely isolated, the conflict will automatically die down. Think of a quarrel between two in your office or locality and any other place. If both of them bring their groups in the conflict, it can go well beyond control. Then this quarrel will turn into a conflict between the two groups. Therefore, do not take a side when two persons are engaged in a quarrel. When you are mediating separate them. If they try to convince you about who is right, say both are wrong. Isolate them for a long time and they will be able to understand their faults. Members, do you agree to this?