The magic of cordial and patient behaviour.Long back, when I had to do my post graduation, I had to go to other city as there was no facility in my place at that time. Myself and two other students got a bachelor accommodation in one house and we settled there. We used to have our food in a hotel which was popular with outside students on the way to our college.
After some time I came to know that some of my distant relatives were also residing in the same city and then I came in their contact. They started calling me for food or snacks time to time on some occasions and I was always looking up to those yummy opportunities.
During that time I had interaction with a person among my relatives who was teaching in a nearby school. Slowly I had more acquaintance with him and on some holiday in spare time I talked to him about my studies and he used to tell me about the job condition in the country and was in fact suggesting some career paths also to me.
He appeared happy with my performance in the first year of my post graduation and also congratulated me.
We used to go for evening walks in the market area just for some amusement and fun and many times we met there as he also was coming there frequently. I always found him cheerful and happy and he was very friendly with the students and elders alike.
I had good association with him and after about 3-4 years when I moved out of that place to join my second job, he bid me good luck for my career and future.
Subsequently, I had to move places in connection with my job and career and I had a lot of discussions, confrontations and even fights on issues with so many people including my family members or relatives or office colleagues but every time I remembered that guy with whom I had not a single conflict on anything. I am always surprised about it.
More I pondered over it more I found that he was a very cordial and patient person and he might have ignored my aggressions many time which I might not have noticed at that time. He was having an extraordinary control on his behaviour and temperament and it was only he because of whom we had so good and pleasant relations during that time.
There is a magic in cordial and composed behaviour. Do you also feel like that?