How your choices define who you are who you become?We don't realise it but throughout the journey of our life, we keep getting choices. From school level choosing our friends, subjects and courses e.t.c. and on later levels our jobs, spouse and life for our children and many more things. These choices took a wider range and more serious connotation as we grow up. And we are never conscious of how every previous choice of ours impacted our future choices. If we ever set down analysing how our lives have been if we have opted for another path we realise how every previous choice opened the way for next new choice.
Whenever I think of choice I kind of remember my favourite poem by" Robert frost "which is "the road not taken". Though every one of us might have read it during our school or maybe college courses I will still quote a few lines of it
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveller
Though the choices give us the liberty to become who we are it also gives us an imaginary world of what we could have been. What if we have opted for another path?
Choices give you satisfaction and freedom of making your own decisions enjoying each movement of life in your own terms. But is the freedom provided by choice complete? It again depends on us because with freedom of choice comes the responsibility of bearing the consequence of what we have chosen whether it is positive or negative. Once we got a choice every other thing which happens in our life is our own responsibility and we can't blame any of the results on anyone else.
No matter how much people blame others and claim that their life has been the way it is because of someone else's doing deep down they all know its result of their personal choices. So our choices in a way liberate us but also puts chains of responsibility on us as well.