So it is always better to be happy and try to come out of problems by thinking positively. Once we are happy we will have our mind relaxed and we can think ways and means to come out of the problems.
It is a choice to be happy but let us think that there is no option but to be happy. Then we will have a different life in all aspects.
We pretend to be happy but that starts coming up in out mind and this make us sad. Its phycology, even if we tend to ignore, many a times, it tend to arise from nowhere.
Many has learned the art of being happy even in bad times & that's very essential but to be frank, I tried it a lot but, not able to cope. Hope, one day I will learn this art which may replace me with a new person.
“Each day provides its own gifts.” —Marcus Aurelius
We should always be satisfied with what we have in life. Once we start desiring for more than what we have, our happiness suffers. It's the nature of mankind to crave more which makes our life miserable. Also when we start comparing with others our life suffers. So it's our choice if we refrain for such things and make our life happy or crave for more and make our life miserable. Most of the people do that and lose the happiness they have in their life.
" We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
– Abraham Lincoln
Many people do the work or things which they don't like for the sake of others and later they will feel sad about that. So instead of feeling sad, one shouldn't do what they don't like. It's our choice what to do and what not to do. If your happiness matters to you, do what you like. Feel sad or happy, everything will be in our hand.
Knowledge is power.