Why some of us justify negative self-talk?Some people are in the habit of making negative self-talk. They will say, "I have done this wrongly. Oh, it was my mistake only" or "I should not have done this. It was disastrous" or "Again I have done it wrongly. I will never learn".
If you stop them not to do it they will start telling that how weak and inferior they are and they can not attempt any work fearing that they will fail in it. They will always have negative toughs and negative self-talk about themselves. If you advise them not to do like that and try to motivate them, they will not agree and instead justify their arguments by more examples and narrations.
Why some people are so much adamant in making as well as justifying their negative self-talk? Please share your views on this.