Is it still possible to shame an enemy?Given the complexities of the social and political environment, where there is so much of hatred sought to be introduced on the basis of religion by a particular political party, and the kind of dynamics that follows in the public discourse, we often find ourselves at a crucial position. On the one hand, we have a good amount of values given to us by our parents. This is actually the spirit of non-violence, We should not do any harm to anyone who does something to us. Irrespective of the harm inflicted on us, we should do good to them and shame them. This should be done repeatedly.
We do come across people who still do it. However, life is not that simple. There are "barbarians" at our gate as well. People who would go all out to give us maximum trouble, for whatever reason.
How do we deal with such people? Is it still possible to shame an enemy, given the fact that things are now reaching a boiling point? If someone tries to cheat us for instance, can we still reason out with that person or persons? What is the experience of members in this regard?