Now both my sons complain about me to their mother that I never handled them when they are kids but now I am doing the same to my granddaughters. Those days I was in my thirties and my priorities and g0als are different. But now I am aged and my priorities are different. All depends on that.
I think females will be much better at handling and managing babies than gents. They know how to see that they will not cry and play well without any issues.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Knowledge is power.
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
Limit your "alway's" and your "never's." - Amy Poehler??
My first experience was with my neighbour's daughter who was so comfortable to stay with me. I would walk carrying the sleeping baby for more than a kilo metre yet see would not get disturbed.
I can easily handle the baby from the day one and can also bathe three month old children by myself. It is an art as my friends suggest.
My children are always comfortable with me for the songs i sing for them. For my daughter i sing "showers of blessings". A few telugu laali song make her so happy.
Each mother has her own song to make the baby cuddle than the regular ones. This uniqueness kneads the affectionate bond. Child identifies the special person through her melodious voice, touch as mother in the early days.
Lead the leader