Knowledge is power.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
The requirements will be different from user to user. I want a partner who earns money. You may want a partner who serves you better. So whom I find perfect may not be perfect to you. This may be due to difference in the requirements.
So finding a person who is perfect to me is easy but it may not be easy to find a perfect person to you. A common standard for a particular use can be made but irrespective of uses setting a standard is very difficult.
The ultimate result may be quite shocking because of non materialisation of the marriage due to nonavailabilities of the matching partners. Instead of looking out for perfection, we need to appreciate our opposite partners with their existing habits and to a great extent, the habits are changeable with the situations.
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.