An expectation is the root cause of developing cracks in relationshipsIt is natural to have some expectations in life. To get good marks, have a respectable job, or stay in a healthy atmosphere are a few wishes which do not create extra pressure on anyone else.
In this particular thread, I want to highlight those wantings which we face among our close relationships. Consider the strenuous relationship between parents and children. The expectation of the spouses from each other is another example. Among friends, other relatives and in between, siblings people always draw some expectations, but when it doesn't get fulfilled, then confrontation among the closest relationships cannot be avoided.
Why most of the people believe in expectation? The parents always think that children must look after them. If children fail to perform their so-called duties, then they are blamed, but did the parents brought the kids into the world with their permission? Either of the spouses usually has some complaints, but why? People are not ready to accept their partners as they are. Yes, if the partner is not a righteous person, then one has the right to complain but trying to mould the partner according to one's wish in every sense is a wrong desire. Among siblings, confrontation arises because of money, position and intention. Why do we fail to accept people without any pre-conceived idea? It is good to take care of a loved one but expecting being taken care of is to develop a crack in the relationship. What do you say?