Extend your alm to the really needy personsIn Tamil there is a proverb, 'paathiram arinthu pichchai idu' which means the alm should be given to the persons by knowing them / their requirment.
Advising to others is very easy and found common in all human irrespective of age and gender. But the thing we have to keep in mind that the advise also to be given only to the applicable one and really intended one.
Advising in volunteer is not liked by many people though many of us doing. Generally we do advise to the persons closed to us with real intention and involvement but that too taken mistake by the person.
We can see in many places persons driving two wheeler are informing the others coming in opposite direction without helmet etc., that police or checking persons are on the way. By ignoring their alert if the two wheeler person go without helmet should get caught.