Parents and house persons should act carefully as children are watchingIn many houses, parents and house persons are fighting or using abnormal words among them in common. They forget the main thing that children are watching them and start copying the same. Whether the matter is small or big they should not do the same before the children irrespective of their age.
I went to an office to meet the proprietor one day. Since the proprietor was not in the office and about to come, I was waiting there by casually talking to the steno (male) and found noting that amid the talking he used to say 'Oh Muruga' often. This made me to wonder as he being a christian, how he used to tell in this way. Later only I came to realize that the proprietor used to say 'Oh Muruga' often while talking and this inhibited casually to him also.
Similarly the children also copying everything from the parents whether good or bad. If good means is ok but if is bad and filthy it will affect their future and image.
Similarly in olden days parents do never show their difficulty on the children or public. Now the parents in order to make the children perfect and as they think that the children should know the family situation and parents difficulties. In one family the mother was having some inability to sit on ground properly and used to utter, 'I am unable to sit properly' often and by watching this her seven year old child also sit on the ground improperly as of mother and used to tell 'I am unable to write as my hands are paining', like this. She used to sit in school class room also and on the teacher asked the parents called and complaint the parents corrected themselves.