There are the relatives who would not hear your problems. The only solution lies not to part your money as per their desire. You need to be practical while taking decisions. Even the rate of interest you enjoyed in several months back has been slashed further affecting your earnings by way of interest.
In many houses parents are left carelessly after getting all their shares by their own sons.
In another house a couple has no children a brother of this man asked some help for his daughter's marriage. As this person also do not possess any liquid cash could not offer his help. The brother and brother's wife scolded them as anything, did not invite them for the marriage and they told others as,'it is childless property why donot they pledge their house and helped us" without realizing their hurt through this words.
However this 'trust' has proved wrong. IWe get to read and hear many incidents to prove that. The number of cases coming before the women's commissionand in civil courts and open adalats have a large portion cases where very elderly men and woman plead for askingtheir children to take care of them andnot to evict them from their own homes. In most of the cases the parents would have given altheir wealth and assets to the children already.
So now awareness being given to the senior citizen by the coommunity organisations, social workers and other well intented people that elders should not part with their full wealth and savings to their childrren. They should keep a sufficient cushion for their sustenance and medical needs and emergencies. They should also make a will also. They can be kind and afectionate, but not to transfer the hous to their children. They can make a will and convey how they want their wealth and savings to be distributed.
That is why Goveernment of India enacted the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act, 2007. Many cases are coming under this now. This has given some relief to innocent and poor parents who are negelected by their healthy, welthy and capable children.