When you visit a new place if you have the curiosity to know well about that place, you should be alert and observe around so that you will know more about that place. Talk to other people and get information about that place. Then you can understand well about that place.
If you are not alert or your mind is not alert you many not be able to make any good observations even though you are wise. A wise person may be able to observe the things in a short time than the other person and if he is not alert he also can't make any observation.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I believe in a positive attitude. I like those who criticize me.
I have seen this quality in women in genera and mothers in special. I have seen this quality in politicians also. The other section is teachers.
While in women it is an inherent capacity, politicians have to cultivate it for their survival and leadership. Teachers build this quality as they have to see each and every student in the class to ensure discipline and attention and watch response to guage the effectiveness of teaching.
I have seen this quality in many vehicle drivers. Their ears are tuned to identify any abnormal sound while their eys are focused on the road. Simultaneously they will be observing the landmarks and navigating as needed.
While bservation is a skill it becomes an asset with a good analytical mind.
Certain professionasl are trained for this. The police personnel are one main example. They have to get cue from the responses to the questions and alsoobseve the minute changes of body language and sound.of the people.
However observation should not be at the risk of concentraion and it should not turn to be distraction.
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"
Knowledge is power.
In a family, our parents are keen observers and any change in our behaviour, habit, mood, health, etc is easily noticed by them. As we grow, we too become the same and we too notice any minute change in our home, person, things, etc. A mother will be keeping a fine observation of every family member. A father will be more observant while out and even though he would be busy, anything that happens outside will be protected under his shelter, etc.
In profession, a driver will be very attentive using his eyes, ears and mind. A doctor understands his patients through his talk and movements. A policeman/teacher understand even the slight change in our body language, eye contact, etc.
Even a lover understand his counterpart very well and would observe every change. It is common for people to relax and be silent at times but that doesn't mean that he/she is not sharp. At times when one is not interested, he may not be observant and may miss things but it has nothing to do with sharpness or alertness.
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in." — Morrie Schwartz
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
Generally everyone has tendency of observing what is happening around him but some people have uncanny acumen and keen insight in this regard. They have ability to see deep inside and into the people or things what common people don't realize.
Taking Interest in observation makes the people prudent and pragmatic. It enables them to judge their value as well as reality.