No life without Sun
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in." — Morrie Schwartz
If we differ from the opinions of other people we can tell them diplomatically without hurting the feelings of other members. I have also seen some people who use words which will make the other person annoyed. Somehow I never like that way of writing. But there is no rule that all should think in similar lines.
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"
Patience and perseverance pays
And if there are more responses, then not everyone but I definitely see the response of some writers from whom I want to learn something.
Since I always like to learn, I see the response of most of the people, which gives me a chance to see and see the new people, I am getting to learn a lot from this platform and I am proud to be a part of it.
Keep your Face to the SunShine
I believe in a positive attitude. I like those who criticize me.
Knowledge is power.
In some threads the core message may not be clear to me. I read some other responses and see what they understood from it. If from that I become clear then I may read the thread again and also go through other responses and post my view. Sometimes I feel that I am a bit brazen. So when there are some threads on which I have some strong opposite views, I generally keep quiet. There were certain authors who never accepted and entertained different views. I used to simply skip their threads and posts.
There are certain threads and responses made just for the sake of it. I skip them. In the social media generally people like praises, flattery and pseudo boosts. It is very easy to comment a thread as excellent, unique, wow etc just to please the author. That will be just as the hollow likes and thumbs up in FB, etc. I do not indulge in such tactics, but give my mind if I feel the post deserves appreciation, encouragement or some fine tuning suggestions. Sometimes I do this by private message to the author also.
In the social media, blogs, where the ad revenue is important, the posts are needed for getting page space for ads and revenue. So, serious discussions do not take place. It will be more rewarding to open a new page and thread. If one indulges in serious discussion, the thread loses its steam soon. Stereotyped, niche controversial threads get attention in social media and get good page hits. Such threads recur because of the keywords get good searches and hits.
I also do not support the idea of making a thread elastic by numerous avoidable responses. Over a period, by experience we get the core of a thread or response by reading fast and glancing over a few lines.
Moreover, few are able to write a very long response, drags a lot of time too. Explaining a content in detail is necessary sometimes.
Lead the leader
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease