One should decide and try to work hard for getting his desires fulfilled. There may be people who acquired money from the elders and so they may be enjoying. But why should we compare ourselves with them? If you have some aspirations, try to achieve them by a fair means and by working hard. Never try short cuts or never to steel. These will cause many problems.
Quarrel, fight, standoff and face off will result in unrest and tensions. They will create health problems for us. So we should avoid all those.
Keep your Face to the SunShine
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.