Regarding depression and PM reportDear All Friends and Learned people,
I am new to this forum.
I need some advice from learned people and friends regarding below.
? My sister got married in 2017 and 2 months of her marriage she was complained with heart block and because of this doctors advised to implant pace maker with 10 years warranty for battery (we arranged lumpsum money and she was implanted with the same)
? After few months she got fits complaint 3 times and took medicines for the same
? Both heart and neuro doctor certified that she was fit for giving birth to a baby
? After all issues she got conceived and her husband took so much care and attention towards my sissy.
? Post delivery (it's a cesarean based as she won't able to push the baby with pace maker and fits problem) she got some fungus infection in her right hand finger and seek medical advice for 1st week, 2nd week – cough , 3rd week – leg swelling and shoulder pain – we though this shoulder pain as gastric trouble as she already had this) but still COUGH not gone and because of this she was not able to get enough sleep and for feeding baby she woke up in the late nights frequently.
? But doctor told this cough is because of heat and cold combination and climatic change and leg swelling is because she is simply sitting without doing any work and also asked me to give some simple household work to do)
? At this situation we planned to take her to heart doctor which we were asked to take her after her delivery.
? During diwali morning she had just 1 dosa and after having the same she is ready to take fits related medicine, suddenly without any noise ot sound we were shocked she fall down from a chair and got wound in her head part and after few minutes she left her last breathe leaving all of us in a sudden
? Even then with a hope I took her to nearby pvt hospital, there they told no cardiac response and asked to give a complaint in the local police station for a formality.
? From there we were advised to take her to govt hospital and we did so and they finally declared her death.
? After this process police enquiry and RDO enquiry both gone and in RDO office they asked us to complete the POSTMORTEM and burial formalities as per our custom and after few days asked us for giving statement (this process is because of death post her delivery and less than 2 years of marriage – thought this as of dowry related ) but really her husband is a gem of person.
? Both police enquiry and RDO process got over, but still POSTMORTEM report is pending and 3 time I went to police station and I was given with a mobile number of a police sir and messaging him thru whats app , but no replies from his side.
? Now I need advice from all to come out of this critical mental depression as I loved my sister so much, I treated her as my daughter and her baby is with me as no one is there to take care of this child.
? Im not suppose to concentrate in any work (both official and personal) its only me have to take care both my son and this baby of my sissy.
? Im going mad with my sister's memory
? I just cant digest her death, im not, im not
? Sometimes thinking of to commit suicide and after seeing both kids face I m just kept quite and normal.
? She is just 25 yrs and she is a very good human being and she never even give counter to anyone.
Please all (after reading this) don't think im in a abnormal condition
Please advice me both for my depression and getting PM report.
I live in Chennai (because of this covid issue im not able to go to police station frequently for follow up this)