If there is no mutual respect, then there is only one thing - dominance. Usually in marriages either the husband or the wife will always try to dominate one another and this leads to constant fights and misunderstandings. Although we say that we live in a male dominated society/World but slowly and steadily this myth is breaking down.
I can understand, those who suffer may not agree to it but changes are evident and at some time and some one must have taken up the responsibility and shown the courage to change things and bring about equality among both genders and for the same reason we see so many successful women's in every sector including the forces which is considered one of the toughest place to be.
I personally know and seen tough ladies who have paved their way to success without caring about what the society thinks or says. We should choose the society we wish to live rather than the society moulding us the way it is.
Changes come and they come at a price and that is why any change is painful. The comfort we have or see is a fruit of someone's labour and hard-work in past, so if we want the future to be safe, secure, comfortable and equal for all then, being thay change now is the only way forward.
Live before you leave.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Similarly, there is a change in the houses also. These days both wife and husband are earning and both of them are sharing the house works. I know many people who make coffee and offer his wife by the time she comes from the office. These days girls are very choosy and they have many set specifications for the boy she has to marry.
Of course, there may be some families with male domination but there are families with lady domination also. At the same, I should say that there are families where both wife and husband will go with an understanding and lead a beautiful life without any complaints.
Knowledge is power.