Wishing well for someone and meaning it are two different Worlds.We are surrounded by people, friends, relatives, office colleagues who all say that they always wish well being for us and they mean it. They would even swear to it, but when it really comes to a situation when we need them, most of them turn deaf and start giving excuses.
Most of the people, even relatives show their true colour when you are in need and especially financial need. In general everyone will wish health, wealth and prosperity but if you face a situation where you lose wealth due to bad health and ask for help, then very few will turn up. Some will say that they have some prior commitment and they need the money to pay back someone, they will help next time for sure. Some will come up with excuse that they had today only gave it to someone who asked for it, so next time they will surely help and similarly many more excuses from most, even though they have the money.
Such behaviour of our near one's prove that they only have words that sound well but not the will to do well or help their own in times of need.
Asking money is like a litmus test and to check our near and dear ones. We can take this test once in a while to check them whether they really mean, what they say, even when we are not in need.