Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Similarly, if a person is starving for some food, we can give him some food and see that he will survive. We need not think about the person's background.
But if somebody comes and ask you to give some money, we can look into the person's history and see whether he deserves the help or not. Some people waste the money what we gave them thinking that they are good. Helping is good but don't help people who indulge in bad habits and try to exploit your good nature.