Surprising to see some people do not allow us to help othersThere is a term in Tamil, 'Naai petra thengam pazham' which means if a dog got a coconut, it will not eat by itself, as not known to how to eat. It rolls the coconut by not giving to others but barking if anybody tried to take that. Similarly it is surprised to see some people do not permit to help others but they themselves also not helping.
I planned,once, to go to other town to help a relative who got hospitalized (not in pandemic season) but my another relative prevented me to go there by saying,'why should you go there, why dont their relatives took care on him'.
At another incident I, by seeing the plants are withering, tried to pour water from the pipe. My younger brother asked me not to do so, as the house owner would say something.
I am surprising to see such people preventing others to offer help in spite of they are not helping.