In general, we see that in most families, serving food has been made the job of women, which is a very strange custom. There are very few men who serve their own food. I always like to serve my plate myself. If for some reason I could not serve my food myself, I do not like it. We have an idea of how much food we like to eat on a day, sometimes it depends on what is made in the food, how much will be the ratio of food today, so in my opinion, the serving food itself should be the right decision as it also helps to less wastage of food items.
But in Indian society, the responsibility of the kitchen is given to the women and all the work related to it is handed over to them, even some men do not like to take one glass of water for themselves, which is completely wrong.
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