We should never spill our words on any situationWhile talking to others or handling situations, we should never spill our words hurting others. Many people I am seeing spilling words harshly to others without thinking the effect of such utterance. The person on whom such words given will suffer mentally as anything. Many people I am seeing hurting other for having no children etc., These such words will last till her death though it has been spill casually.
I read one story in this connection. An old man who spend his lifetime by sitting idle in the house comments badly on his neighbor man who is working as a casual driver and he go for work as and when he receive calls. The old man spread a news that that casual driver is going and coming in odd hours and he might be go for stealing something. It got spread and police also took him for some other case on suspicion. This affect badly for this driver's job also. He took this matter to court. A learned Judge called both. On enquiry, the old man accepted his sayings and asked for apology but told Judge he was not understanding how his words affected him badly. The judge asked the old man to write his sayings about the man, in a paper. He did so. Read judge asked the old man to tear off the paper into bits and put outside. He did so and come inside. He told the Judge whether he can go out, then. Judge accepted but asked him to bring the paper bits he thrown outside. He accepted and gone but collected some bits of the same what he thrown. He told Judge the same. Judge told him,'Dear you cannot able to collect the paper bits what you yourself thrown outside. Now when you go to collect back you cannot get back fully as they spread out, similar to that you cannot collect back your words you spill out.'
Similar situations we everybody facing daily. We spill our words badly when we blacked our mind. and it is meaningless when we feel later for that.