Control your jealousy and everything else falls into placeWhen a person is jealous of somebody, he or she starts comparing himself or herself with that person. Naturally, the process of feeling inferior also tends to be associated with systematic attempts to create some hurdle or the other for the person concerned, who may be a high achiever or someone who has been successful due to his or her hard work.
It is not that every human being is jealous of anyone or someone around him or her. However, some research has indicated that three out of ten persons naturally have this dangerous habit or emotion. If it remains a mere emotion, there are chances that the person is likely to come out of this problem. If it becomes a habit, it becomes more dangerous. The person makes it a point to plot something against someone who is the target of his or her jealousy, on an everyday basis. The horrible television serials shown in several languages do show several ways for such people to do some harm or the other -- big or small.
And then a series of actions follow. This is the worst thing that can happen to anyone. The best course is to control it and start believing in his or her own ability. Psychologists call this positive affirmation. If we start saying to ourselves that we are capable and that we are winners, the chemistry that works within ourselves will automatically take us forward. We need to have an action plan for this and then throw away jealousy totally.