When there is a discussion we should hear to understand what others are telling. But many will hear to counter it. That will give more problems. Hear the point, understand the view and discuss based on the merits and demerits of the point. Such discussions will never get into argument mode. If really there is a good point in other's views accept it and implement it. The point should be accepted or rejected based on the strength of the point but not based on who proposed it.
Knowledge is power.
Anger has many side effects on the physique. It leads to headache, hyper tension, heart attack and so on. It is better that one of the persons can move out of the place when the other is in the state of anger. This will help them to get distracted and gives a relief.
Lead the leader
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
To control anger we should meditate daily so as to keep our mind at the realistic level.