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    Your self confidence your non transferable asset

    If you ask any wiser person as to what makes them the big either money, fame and health but they would certainly say that the self confidence is the biggest asset of any person and that is not transferable and cannot be weighed. And this self confidence legacy comes from the the series of setbacks and through which quality learning and thus makes the person perfect to the hilt. Even during this pandemic those who were self confident stood unmoved when others were bowed down by series of challenges and sad moments.
  • #721212
    Some people say that these traits like self confidence come in the people through two ways. One is the hereditary and other is the hard work. So, I do not know which factor is more important but as we cannot have control on the hereditary factor so definitely we have control on our own deeds and efforts for making our lives a successful endeavour. Self confidence does not build up in one day as it requires many learnings and experiences to be accumulated in a particular person while he is struggling his way ahead in the journey of life. Once he inculcates self confidence then the future journey becomes easier as people having self confidence can always take better decisions as compared to their counterparts. A good decision is very fruitful in our lives as many other subsequent actions are based on that only.
    Knowledge is power.

  • #721218
    Which came first between hen and egg? This is quite a similar question which comes first in importance - money, fame, self-confidence.
    Self-confidence comes with money and fame. Money does not come until it is earned by hard work, dedication, time-consumption etc and fame don't come until one has proven his qualities or his forte which impresses the world and it results in fame. But performance or exhibition of those qualities is not possible until one has self-confidence. All these are intertwined.
    But if someone does not have money or fame, he should not worry provided that he has self-confidence because it's something special characteristics which keeps him excels.
    The author is right.

  • #721222
    Yes, it is true, confidence is the most important asset. Even after having knowledge, experience, money, power, etc., he will not be considered successful if he lacks confidence. Self-confidence is an essential element that satisfies many deficiencies. If we are confident that we can do this task, then even in the most difficult situation, we will not back down and in the end, will achieve our objective. Self-confidence does not come suddenly. When you keep doing your actions continuously, accept your mistakes, and learn from those mistakes then gradually your self-confidence increases.
    Swati Sharma

    Keep your Face to the SunShine

  • #721225
    Absolutely money and fame can be earned but self confidence one gains through the knowledge and the skills. One gains it through the ways he/she reacts with the things/incidents.

    I remember in school we had few students who were very shy and used to shiver when asked to come on the stage and say few words in front of whole class and there were students too who were so confident and used to speak anything with the confidence . This is all because they are brought up in the environment where there parents have helped them to grow like this so the environment too is responsible for it.

    When we start working and do jobs there also we need to have a good self confidence to get appreciation from the boss. If we don't have it we may be called a negative person. It's important asset and one should always build it in him/herself for good personality.


    " The two most important days in your life are the day when you are born and the day you find out why? "
    – Mark Twain

  • #721246
    Self confident person also gives energy to other dull persons to perform.
    K Mohan @ Moga
    'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
    Even this challenging situation would ease

  • #721251
    Self-confidence is a real requirement for a person to progress in his life. If you have no confidence in you, you can't take any decision with confidence and you have to depend on others for many issues. Your life is completely known to you. The other person will not have the complete idea about you and you will be the better judge always to make a decision about you. You can consult other people. But you should make a decision after considering the whole issue. For that self-confidence is very important.
    But self-confidence should not become overconfidence. Many times people misunderstand between these two words. We should know our strong points and the extent of our knowledge also should be known to us. Then wherever necessary we can go for a consultation with some other people also. But without thinking properly and without consulting other people, forgetting our weaknesses and if we make a decision with overconfidence we may fail and we will be lost in the race. So have self-confidence but never go with overconfidence.

    always confident

  • #721411
    Confidence is the biggest asset of a person and it matters a lot in this practical world. There are many people who are very qualified and able but they lack confidence and lose many opportunities in their lives. They always think that what would happen if their performance is not good or how they will face the interview etc. It is very necessary to inculcate a good confidence in addition to acquiring theoretical knowledge in so many subjects because ultimately what matters is the confidence coupled with ability of a person which gets him all the success in life,
    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

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