Is it bad to be little selfish at times?
Do you think being yourself and doing everything as you please, at times, just to keep yourself happy is fine? Being selfish is not an accepted trait but being so for your own sake, in between, is not a sin. Right?
It is not good to be selfish always and selfish people are usually not liked by anyone. Selfish people only think about themselves and do things only that is beneficial for them and never care about others. This is definitely bad as we should always consider others and not just think about is.
But I feel at times it is okay to be selfish and care only about us. There are few people especially housewives who are selfless and selflessly serve others or the entire family. In this process, they do not even care about themselves and be so busy looking after others. But some times it is okay for such selfless people to think about themselves by not caring for anything and doing what they love. Sometimes, it is okay to be selfish and buy what they want or do they want without compromising with anyone or for anything.
But I see that even if people think about themselves once in a while is termed as self-centred and tagged various names. But I feel it is absolutely okay to be selfish. What are your views on this?