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    Give good advices, support, and directions, not financial help

    Some people have a habit of asking loan from others and will always be looking for financial help from some quarters. After taking that they would forget about it and would say that it was used like that and now they want more of it. Though most of us will not be giving money to such people but they are a liability to the society as they are not concentrating in working and are instead surviving on such doles from the considerate people in the society. We have to guide these people for getting some job and inspire them to get engaged in some work and earn themselves so that they understand the value of work and the value of earned money also. We should not only guide them but also give them advices and other indirect support so that they are recovered from the passive phase of their lives and contribute in the society. Is it possible to do so? To motivate and channelise their energies in positive territories?
  • #724510
    These people who always seek help of people are very clever people who know how to make people stupid. They are smart cheaters. No suggestion will change their mindset. When they can earn money by cheating people why they will accept our suggestions to mend their ways. I don't think we should waste our time over them. However, if any our sibling or close relative is involved in such activity we must work on them.

  • #724535
    Rightly said by the author. One of my co employee who used to very nice to all and his performance was good suddenly left the job for better prospects. But he has borrowed money from many and his huff decision to leave the job was caught unaware and he does not have even salary balance with the company. Now many employees who need to get money from him are fuming at him for leaving so suddenly and now he has switched off his phones and nore response. So what the author said is right, we should not help with money but only in other way of advise and and tips to life.
    K Mohan @ Moga
    'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
    Even this challenging situation would ease

  • #724565
    Many times on the roads some beggars will ask for money and we reluctantly give them some coins. But this is not regarding beggars but normal people who can work instead and it is surprising that they ask for money just like that. We should definitely discourage them.
    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

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