Believe in the existence of God the super power.
One of relatives who worked as an officer in France airlines (Air France ) but whenever he returned his family he would walk barefoot and would enter anybody's home and if someone would be eating food he would snatch food from him and began to eat in the same plate. He travelled large part of the world in his life but he would say I find peace in my colony sharing time with rustic people where I was raised.
But we should not leave the path of morals and ethics. We should be rigid in such cases. Somebody is advising you to do things which are not ethical you should not go for that. Then people will understand that you are a man with helping nature. At the same time you will not go out of the way and out of rules to help others.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease