Looking inwards is a must for every human beingAs human beings, each of us has several strengths and weaknesses as well. Each of these variables increases or decreases in terms of intensity at some point in time. Words and body language are extremely important. Anger is something that is common to any human being but controlling that is extremely important.
When we look around us, we often find that those with a higher percentage of knowledge about themselves are more composed, are very cool and act very fast in any crisis situation. They are often referred to as people who are "self-confident". In other words, they are those who also have a great deal of self-awareness.
Such self-awareness does not come within a day. It comes after several days and months of reflection and thought. The awareness starts increasing when we start analysing what impact we have on others and how. For example, if we are consistent in keeping up our promises and are highly punctual in our daily lives, we would have created a good I pression on every human being we interact with. If we are consistently very honest, we would create for ourselves a big peace of mind and inner happiness that will also find expressions in our behaviour that will be noticed by others.
Let us make a beginning in this big journey. It is great to maintain a dairy of what went right or wrong. When we look back and recollect those specific experiences, we will have managed to do the first right thing; a deeper analysis will reveal what we need to correct, when, where and how.
It is a continuous process.