K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
I had a good friend in my office. We used to move very close and we used to exchange many confidential issues with each other. We never disclosed its information to any third person. But after 3 or 4 years, I got a doubt that the other person is using the information for his benefit and telling confidential information to others. I lost trust in him. So we discontinued friendship. He tried to convince me in many ways that he has not done any such act. But I have no interest.
The same thing may be happening with many other people also.
Transparency is a secondary thing about the friendship between two same-gender people but if friendship is between two opposite gender then transparency plays a more important role. Everything related to their friendship should be crystal clear.
A true friend and mentor are one who discovers the potential of those around him, respects and encourages their abilities.
small drops make a mighty ocean