It is fact if you cry before people for your problem they will listen to your grievances attentively but on your back they will share it with other people and some of them may laugh at you too.
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
If you don't learn to love yourself, you won't be able to love others. To be happy we should spend some time of the day alone for ourselves to get out of the constant negativity around us. Planning ahead is not a bad idea, but always thinking about it unnecessarily can kill our happiness, our well-being etc. If you can put a smile on the face of another, you will always have a smile on your face. Listen to those who want to tell you something, even if you can't solve their problems, try to give them a little peace of mind. Look at those who look at your house every day and wonder if they had a house like this. Understand what you have and be happy with that. It is necessary to keep a distance from those who obstruct you, disrespect your faith and always give only stress. Hence we all are running towards happiness and can get a little of its only if maintain the above regulations in our life.
Believe in the existence of God the super power.