We should not be the cause of anyone's painful memories .....Injuries to the mind are more than ten times deeper and painful than injuries to the body. They do not recover very quickly. Even if it is cured, no one will soon forget the moment and the impact it caused. Everyone may not be possible to make happy and comfort another one. But everyone can try not to hurt someone else's mind.
Those who destroy the other's desires and impose their dislikes on them are the makers of pain. Everyone can make cuts. It requires no special training. But it takes effort and training to cure the wound.
What matters here is the difference between a needle with thread and scissors. If our involvement in the personal life of others interferes with their subsequent journeys, then ours is the work of the scissors. Scissors that cut life into pieces. It can cut and trim. But only the needle that accompanies the thread can sew and bring together. In all the ways, the needle travels with pouring out the possibilities of healing that unite everything.
If all that is separated is to be reunited, there must be someone to put it together. Let us be the ones who heal the wounds, not the ones who cut or injure.