Not all the happy looking couples are really happy!
Have you ever been in awe of the bonding and happiness a couple enjoys? Have you ever wondered how there can be a couple who have been made for each other? Have you ever been in doubt whether mutual love and trust could be a management for external acceptance? Let us discuss this interesting but serious topic in this thread.
I have seen many couples who look very happy and share a great bond. Their love, understanding towards each other and mutual support are commendable. I've always wondered, "They look so happy with each other, are they always like this without any fights?" I have seen few of my friends also who look very happy with their spouse.
Recently, I was on a conference call with two of such friends and we were generally discussing our responsibilities and our chores to do. During our conversation, one of our friends opened up about how miserable she felt in her relationship at times, how she is blamed by her husband for any silly mistake that happens and how dominating her husband is. She also told that at times she feels like getting out of her marriage for the way her husband speaks and puts her down always pointing out at her mistake and claiming that anything he does is always right. Though he later consoles her and apologises, this is the everyday story for her. The other friend in our call also informed us that she also fought frequently and was always scared to do anything of her own owing to the blame being placed on her.
I was really shocked to hear this and confessed to thinking that they had a great partner and was lucky to have such a happy bonding with their husbands. For this, they said that happiness and bonding are only external but internally nobody can be totally happy.
I realized that not all happy looking couple are really happy. In fact, 95% of the married couple are adjusting and leading their lives for the sake of their parents or kids. What do you feel about this?