Every individual will have his/her own problems and they will be busy solving those issues. Many times they feel that the time they have is not sufficient for them to solve their own problems. In such a case, How a person expect others to solve his problems?
Even though many people approach us, we may not be able to solve their problems always. But if we show them a path to get their problem solved, that will also be a very good help for them.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I think their complaint is valid because when we have a close relationship or friendship with someone but he hesitates to seek our help, in this situation it is our responsibility to realise our responsibility for him. And the fact is that it is easy to recognise if our friend is in deep trouble, but he does not reveal what is happening with him. If we fail to perceive his problems without him telling us his problems then something is wrong with our perception or with our relationship with him.
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