Life is full of struggles. This struggling never comes to an end till we are walking on this ground. And this struggling process is related to all people, it is not specific to a few people. However, as much big dream, you see as much struggle you are expected to face. Nobody can stop us from dreaming but merely dreaming is of no use. We need to work on the ground to achieve something to make personal life more successful, comfortable and meaningful.
One important lesson I have learnt from time that we should not waste our time on useless doings and sayings. We get nothing except pushing ourselves backwards and we realise our blunder later when the opportunities have already been missed by us.
Be indian and buy Indian.
Never take people's criticism too seriously, people who are abusing you today, the same people will be praising you for your achievement tomorrow. The only thing is one needs to be strong and determined to achieve success in life.
My conclusion is that since man is a social being, society has a role to play in his success or failure. Successes and failures as individuals are not limited to mature people. We must also consider that the negative experiences and joys that he experienced as a child affect his life. Society plays a major role in meeting the learning, health, etc. needs of children in the marginalized category. Isn't society to some extent responsible for the failure of a child to grow up when the above requirements are not fully met? similarly, the act of the society received to a child in time and he becomes a success in reaching out, the Intervention of the society is a milestone for that child. So the society also has a big role to play in determining the successes and failures of one's life. Despite being born and raised in a non-marginalized essential capacity home, society's silent intervention follows him. That intervention also helping him to grow successful. So society is also responsible for the successes and failures of one's life. Community involvement is also a factor in the successes.
small drops make a mighty ocean
My measure of success may be different from the measure of success of others. I got a distinction in my PG. So all my relatives and friends thought I am successful. But I thought I am not successful. I aimed for the first rank but I couldn't. Hence I felt that I am not successful. It all depends on the individual.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
For example, you publicly declare that you are a successful social service worker and that you are devoting your all dreams to the improvement of the poorer sections of society and thus you are a successful man. But by seeing your actual activities in the area all are afraid and nobody is able to raise any complaint against you. Now my question is are you really successful in your life?
Without the direct or indirect positive help from the society one cannot become successful in real sense. The binding rules and regulations of society teach us how to gain all positive characteristics while growing slowly in society. Those who can absorb all and act accordingly will succeed. Then society will decide whether you are really successful in your life or not but you alone cannot you can.
Believe in the existence of God the super power.
Knowledge is power.
I want to share something which is on my mind - career goals are set with lots of aspirations and people work for it in every possible way but when due to certain circumstances, pressure and reasons, hindrances block the career path and it's the end of career goal. The person who was the aspirant to get dream job, the dream is crushed within seconds and results in ultimate frustration and dissatisfaction with life. Aspirants are completely scattered and they seem to lose all hope.
I want to bring out the fact that education is a prospective path to follow. But education is a part of life. Education is not life. It makes us more organized and improves our lifestyle but at the same time, if we fail to get government job, we shouldn't lose hope. Private job ask for donations and there are some barriers. So, my whole point is to make is that we must do every work we can. Don't rush to earn money. If you want to earn money and self independent. Please, be patient and till right time comes...do what you have and make full use of time.
Don't waste time in frustration.
If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"