K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
In a group, there may be different types of people and their thinking pattern will also be different. Another point is people never see the issue as an issue, They will give importance to the person who is proposing that also.
In a group, if the discussion purely goes on the issue only it is easy to make the others accept the proposal based on its merits. But if other priorities come into the picture means it is very difficult for the proposal to get approved.
The majority of people should accept that or the leader of the group has to force it. If we want our proposal to get approved, it is always better to have a discussion with some of the participants separately. We should talk to the people who are having confidence in us. In turn, they may talk to some of their confidential persons and we can get the majority acceptance when the actual discussion takes place. This is the method many people use.
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"
This is also a fact that we are already sure that our proposal or suggestion should be accepted at any cost because our suggestion or proposal is hundred per cent correct and it will have to be honoured by all, I don't think it is a healthy thinking. We should leave it at their volition and discretion power.
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.