Do not aspire to live like any others.We can only live like ourselves. Anyone wants to live like someone else, seeing only the other's prosperity. The hardships and illnesses of their lives will be unknown before our eyes. If you want to understand them, you have to spend at least a day in the same circumstances and mindset as they are. Then we can see that their lives are creeping not through the joys and fortunes they show but through the hidden hardships and obstacles. Continuous views may not be as pleasing to the eye as the first. The cooling view from the outside is not evidence of the internal situation.
Those who see only the shortcomings of their own lives are either ignorant or not find out of the wonders and infinite possibilities in them. The danger is that our looks and attention are going to others. Those who are closing the possibilities of self-analysis, and envy and criticize others get nowhere. All those who want a copy of the lives of others need only their blessings. Life is not for measuring and taking what you most liked.
If we learn to respect the existing situation we are in, not despair of the situations that could have been obtained.