Let the advice be relevant to space and time!Advice is something, can be given to others without any cost. From giving advice, there is no loss to the counselors. For those who have lost everything and are heartbroken, just speaking with the brain is a great sin. Even in the face of adversity, some 'words of comfort' may seem out of control. Counselors who do not know what and where to say will even disasters can be opportunistic. When one was unable to make a decision, advice can be relevant. But it is better not to enter the arena with advice where presence alone is enough.
Those who have lost everything deserve to shed tears and cry. That is how they find their energy. Therefore, it is better not to advise those not to cry. The crying is not absurd about them but is necessary. Many of the mentors are the ones who find things they can't do, excite others, and find satisfaction in doing such things by others. We should ignore those who advise one way and go the opposite way. Those who have gone through similar experiences do not judge or ridicule anyone. They will only hold them together and unite them.