K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I don't think that ego should be given any importance in such cases. If you care about someone because he/she is close to your heart then why you wait for other person to take initiative to restore the relationship.
If both of them have ego problem then their relationship will.not go further. It is better for them to leave this relationship as an old junk.
There is also a second possibility of there never really being a quarrel at all, but yet there lingers a lengthy, prolonged silence. If the recipient does not even respond to a simple "hello, how are you" kind of message, and does not respond to calls also, then what is one supposed to do? In this time of the pandemic, one can worry indefinitely, not knowing if the other person is ok, and not knowing if one is responsible for hurting the other person in some way. When one is completely shut out, one has to assume that the relationship is not something that can be revived because the other person does not want it. Hence, one let's go and can only cherish the happy moments spent together.
When you make a commitment, you create hope. When you keep a commitment you create trust! ~ John C. Maxwell
Believe in the existence of God the super power.
Knowledge is power.
When I went to a hospital at Madurai, to assist my brother who got admitted there for some sudden illness. While waiting at the outside of CCU, an lady aged nearly 60 was sitting along with us. Whole night we all stayed there itself by sitting as the CCU staff may call at any time. Morning I asked my brother's wife and my sister to get fresh. I told that lady also to go along with them by asking the patient's name for whom she is waiting. I assured her that I took care if the CCU personnel call. After they come back, I went to get my coffee. Later that lady with slight cry, told me that her husband was in the CCU with heart attack. She further told,"Sir, my husband since our marriage did not allow any relations of either side to contact. We have a big house in the nearby town and we are wealthy only as we receive rent from six more houses. He made his two sons to study well and both sons are in abroad. Now suddenly he fell in heart attack and I took here by myself in our car. We have enough money but no single person to help. I only suffer a lot but he simply lied in the CCU without knowing my sufferings. Even if he dies no relatives will come, I do not know what to do".